It’s interesting. I was supposed to do something today to help others but the reality is someone helped me and I thought, well… I’m going to write about that because it was just what I needed and it’s in the spirit of helpfulness and that’s exactly what this whole blog project is about….
It’s interesting the way the world works. And when the universe has a plan, I heed it.
A friend of mine reminded me today that there is positivity all around us and personal growth is one of the best things we can do for ourselves. This was the exact message I needed. I was feeling sorry for myself because my plans did not go as I had wanted. And as I was about to wallow in self pity, a friend of mine in so many words said, “hey, living and growing is a damn good day.” With that on my mind, I started to change my tune…
But wait, first – what does that even mean – Personal growth? It sounds like a tag line at the end of a weight loss commercial, right? Or maybe a line for a radio jingle?
In all seriousness though, when I took a moment to stop and think about personal growth, I realized that growing is really the only option, because otherwise I’d be dying… (or stagnant at the very best…)
Bob Dylan once said (or sung, I’m not entirely sure), “He not busy being born is being dying.”
Have truer words been said/sung? As I thought about this, I begin to understand what Dylan meant. If we don’t grow, we wither.
Well…… Screw that.
I’m not gonna wither.
Think about it… Even if you mess up (no matter how bad), if you learn and grow, then you’re living!
Thank you, Chris. And thank you, Universe. I needed this message.
Though today did not turn out as I had expected… life swirled around me and bashed my plans to a pulp, and loved ones were still in my life and put a smile on my face and made me remember something Abraham Lincoln once said:
“Most folks are as happy as they make up their minds to be.”
Life will continually throw us lemons. Perhaps not as “bad” as those in Lincoln’s day, but lemons nonetheless.
As my friend reminded me today though, there’s no reason not to take those lemons and turn them into fancy little tarts that put a smile on everyone’s face….
Eight days till Christmas…. oh my! what will we learn till then?!